Saturday, January 13, 2007

Women tips

Here's a few things some women do wrong:

1) LAYING THERE AND TAKING ITSome women seem to think that once they are on their backs, it's nap time, and the man can do all the work. Men need to have a woman participate - find his rhythym and move along with him. Caress his arms and back and chest. Run your fingers through his hair (if he has any ). All these things make sex a mutual experience.
2) GOING STRAIGHT FOR THE GOODIESSome women seem to go straight from a little kissing right to the pants. Many times a guy is just getting warmed up, and is not ready to have his penis manhandled like a chunk of pasta dough. Work your way down to it, kiss his chest and stomach, stroke his ass and thighs. By the time you reach the goal, he'll be completely ready for you.
3) PLAYING WITH HIS NIPPLES TOO EARLYMost of us like to have our nipples played with, but some of us have very sensitive ones. It takes a certain level of arousal for them to be ready for fingers or tongues. Use your whole hand or palm at first, and massage broad circles on the chest, slowly working your way down to just the nipple, and make sure you are paying attention to his reactions. Too much stimulation too early can be painful for some guys.
4) BOUNCING AROUND TOO MUCH ON TOPWhen you are on top, please be careful! The penis is not designed to withstand 100 pounds slamming down on it at the wrong angle. I swear, I thought the thing was going to get broken in half one time! Stay in control - when in doubt, it's better to lean forward and slide back and forth. That puts less weight on it, and can sometimes provide more stimulation on the clit, if you find the right angle.
5) EXPECTING TOO MUCHSome women take longer to orgasm than others. Some can take a very long time. If it takes you the better part of an hour to have one with your vibrator, don't expect us to give you oral for that long or more. There's only so much the human jaw can take. There comes a certain point, for both men and women, when, if it's just not happening, it's better to take matters into your own hands and give your partner a break.
And now the disclaimer: many of these things are a matter of opinion, my opinion. Just like many of Lioness's items are her personal preferences. Men and women both have many different likes and dislikes - the most important thing is to be open and receptive to what your partner likes and doesn't like, and work together to have a mutually satisfying sexual experience.