Monday, January 15, 2007

Orgasm

Orgasm could be defined as the peak of the sexual arousal, leading to a sensation of extreme pleasure. Flexed muscles get relaxed, sweat pours out, heart rate speeds up and breathing breaks into panting. Those are the things you already know, or you should, so far.
The female orgasm as everything in the female sexuality is quite complex, and rather complex in comparison to the male sexuality.
There’s a lot to be addressed regarding the female orgasm and its attributes. Researchers, sexologists, feminists and women in general talk about the G Spot, female ejaculation, clitoral and vaginal orgasms, multiple orgasms and everything to do with the female sexuality. Most subjects don’t even have enough scientific evidence, but they can’t be simply overlooked, since needs may vary from woman to woman.
Most women complain about feeling unable to reach orgasm. It involves not o­nly physical stimulation but also emotional and psychological features. There’s no such a thing as perfect recipe to reach orgasm, but we dish out a few tips to improve your sexuality.
As you know, women tend take longer to reach arousal. So, talk your partner in to spending more time o­n foreplay, so that you will get there along with him. Knowing your own body for showing your partner how you’d like to be stimulated is quintessential to maximize the female sexuality. This isn’t a simple matter of pushing o­n the right buttons o­n the right way, but to bring out the pleasure you long for, the way you yearn. Men usually get straight to the point (their pleasure that is), so the decision is yours to show your partner that sex is most pleasant when both lovers enjoy it without haste. A good rubbing, oral sex and mutual masturbation are some of the good appetizers to get things started.
Also, there are positions that may help you to reach orgasm swiftly. Positions where the woman gets o­n top of men, will allow a better clitoral stimulation, and therefore the penis to rub against the G spot, which is located two or three inches inside the vagina. That honey will drive you to roof.
However, nothing is going to work out if you don’t let yourself enjoy Sex at its best. Don’t worry whether reaching an orgasm or not. Don’t try to rush things up or do everything at o­nce; take in your stride. Get to know your own body capabilities and limitations beforehand, then relax, show your partner who is in control, get in the right mood and forget any fanciful recipes. Simplicity remains o­ne of the best ways to reach orgasm and enjoy your own sexuality.

2 comments:

Bare said...

You know, this really is a cool blog! :0)

TitanThirteen said...

I get put off too easily, breaks in my concentration. Half the time i don't even bother trying.

Sigh